Why?
Have you ever asked yourself why?
What made you question that thought or situation?
I feel that at some point we ask ourselves this each and every day.
I have this moment all the time and I try to change my thought process but sometimes it doesn't always work out for me.
It sucks when you try to talk to people about how you are feeling and all they can say is either " That's on you", " Try harder," or " You'll get over it."
How are those helpful? They aren't. They make things worse for that person.
So, yes we become more quiet and not as outgoing.
I had this moment last week after work.
In my head I asked myself "What is the point in trying when all that happens is that I get yelled at or fingers snapping in my face?"
Yes, the second one did happen and let me tell you I was not happy about it at all.
And no, I didn't say anything to my boss who was that one who did it.
So I went home and cried until I gave myself a head ache, had dinner and went to bed.
The only person I could talk to was my husband who just sat next to me and let me cry until I was able to speak.
Don't let any one push away your feelings.
It is OK to ask why!
And don't let the why stop you!
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